4 Ways You Might Be Sabotaging Your Abundance
Welcome back to the Embodied Baddie Podcast 🎧
In this episode, I’m breaking down manifestation in the simplest way possible — and exposing where most women (especially high-achieving, ambitious ones) accidentally sabotage themselves.
Because manifestation isn’t about wishing harder.
It’s not about scripting for 47 minutes.
And it’s definitely not about pretending you feel abundant when your nervous system is in full-blown fight-or-flight.
We’re talking about what actually works.
Whether you’re manifesting more revenue, deeper love, time freedom, or your next level of leadership — this episode will show you the simple steps… and the subtle identity traps that keep you stuck.
This is spiritual.
This is strategic.
This is somatic.
This is data-driven.
Let’s go.
What We Cover
1. Get Specific (But Not Desperate)
Clarity is power. Vague desires create vague results.
You need to know where you’re going — but without gripping it so tightly that your nervous system feels threatened by it.
Most people don’t get what they want because they’re unclear… or because what they “want” is actually something they think they should want.
We clean that up.
2. Feel It Before You See It
Manifestation isn’t about visualization alone — it’s about embodiment.
Can your body safely hold the level of success you’re asking for?
If you’re trying to manifest overflow while living in chronic stress, your system will quietly reject it.
We talk about how to:
Generate the feeling now
Expand your capacity to hold more
Stop waiting for results to feel worthy
3. Take Aligned Action (Not Frenzied Action)
You don’t manifest by sitting still.
But you also don’t manifest by panic-posting, overworking, or forcing outcomes.
Aligned action feels clear.
Desperate action feels urgent.
Most women trip up here — they either under-act or overcompensate.
I break down what aligned movement actually looks like.
4. Learn How to Receive
This is the one almost everyone skips.
You cannot manifest more if you’re:
Deflecting compliments
Over-giving
Undercharging
Refusing help
Secretly believing you have to earn everything the hard way
Receiving is a skill.
And if abundance feels unsafe, you will unconsciously block it.
5. Stop Moving the Finish Line
You finally hit the goal… and instead of celebrating, you raise the bar.
Sound familiar?
Celebration locks the manifestation in.
Gratitude stabilizes it.
Skipping this step trains your brain to believe “it’s never enough.”
We talk about how to anchor your wins so your nervous system learns: this is safe.
Where Most People Get Tripped Up
They want the outcome but haven’t shifted the identity
They visualize but don’t regulate
They take action from fear
They ask for more but feel unsafe having it
They refuse to celebrate what’s already working
Manifestation isn’t magic.
It’s identity + nervous system + aligned action.
And when those three line up?
Things move.
Your Embodied Baddie Action Steps
Write down exactly what you want — and why.
Ask yourself: Who would I need to become to hold this?
Take one small aligned action this week.
Practice receiving today (a compliment, support, money — anything).
Celebrate one win you’ve been downplaying.
If this episode hit, share it with another woman who’s ready to stop “trying” to manifest and start embodying the version of her who already has it.
And if you’re ready to do this work at a deeper level — you already know where to find me.
See you next week, baddie. 💋🎧
